Archive for February, 2009

Monasti what?

Saturday, February 28th, 2009

My bride and I had an interesting evening listening to a group of Christ followers who are in intentional communities. A couple of things I noticed:

Although they represented a half a dozen or more groups who had never before met, they all had a common language - I language that I did not speak and often could not follow. How often do those who don't follow Jesus feel this way about us - we speak an odd language that makes them feel excluded. That we don't intend to exclude is irrelevant, the effect is the same regardless of the intent.

It was good to hear different ideas about the Bible and who Jesus is. I was challenged by some of what was said, and will continue to ponder it for some time to come. Lori and I discussed what we had heard on the way home, and the new take on "old ideas" helped us to see things differently. Listening to those who have different ideas can be challenging, but it usually is beneficial. Even if you don't ultimately add any of the ideas to your theology, the exercise of examining, contrasting, and comparing will bring growth.

Frog legs

Saturday, February 28th, 2009

Try the missionary position with a minor change - her legs together, yours on the outside of hers. Her legs will be partly parted until you enter, then she puts them together. Some women find that this position more stimulating than regular missionary.

Stop lights are for kissing

Thursday, February 26th, 2009

Paul Byerly


When you stop at a light with your bride in the car, give her a kiss. Repeat at all red lights.

How much of a kiss will depend on a combination of her comfort level and how public the location.

Bonus: Complain about every green light you hit!



To “buy happiness” go for experiences, not things.

Wednesday, February 25th, 2009
Galina Barskaya http://www.fotolia.com/id/374064
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A few recent experiments suggest that long term happiness and satisfaction with life come not from what we have but what we do - experiences rather than things as it were. I would think this is especially true for couples - so buying her things won't have the long-term positive impact of spending money to do things with her.  This suggests that a majority of the money you spend "on her" should go towards dinners, movies, going dancing, museums, day trips, vacations, and so on.

If you are being hit by financial limitations, look for ways to "buy" experiences on the cheap. Make a picnic meal and take a drive to the beach, the mountains, a national park, or some such. Find a way to go to movies when the prices are lower. Look for deals on off days and at non-peak times.

Kirsty Pargeter http://www.fotolia.com/id/1229645
... and less of this.

If you are not being hit by the current financial problems, there will be some great deals out there from vacation locations hurting for income - might be the time for a vacation you've always dreamed about.

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Does this browser make my page look fat?

Wednesday, February 25th, 2009

For those of you reading on the web site - does the page seem to display correctly?  Specifically, is the left column (the one these words are in) correct (see screenshot below).  I know the width of the blue between the columns varies by browser, but as long as the columns are as shown it's good.

I am particularly interested hearing about IE 6 and Safari.

Thanks,
Paul

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Calling all bases …

Tuesday, February 24th, 2009

If you live multi-story home or a large single level home, and especially if you have children, there can be a lot of yelling back and forth going on. Some women don't mind this, but it drives others mad. If your wife is in the second category, think about an intercom system. Wireless intercoms simply need to be plugged into the wall and are ready to go.

Friends far and wide

Monday, February 23rd, 2009

Over the past few days Lori and I have had the blessing of seeing a number of friends who live a good distance from us - people we love but don't get enough time with. It is interesting to see my bride through the eyes of others, and to see how she connects and relates to various individuals. After each visit, we had new points of view and interesting ideas to discuss together.

I encourage you and your bride to make a point of spending time with folks who will give you new insights and ideas to stimulate discussion when it's just the two of you.

Hidden code words

Monday, February 23rd, 2009

You can send your bride secret love messages or encouragement in public by coming up with a few words, phrases or actions that mean something special to the two of you.

For example - at a table, instead of saying "please pass the mashed potatoes" you could say "please send the mashed potatoes my way". Let your bride know "send the ____ blank my way" means "I love you".

"It's warm in here." = "You're so hot."
"What a beautiful sunset." = "You are so beautiful."

Stirring a drink that does not need to be stirred could indicate you are ready to leave when she is. Tuning your watch around your wrist 180° could mean you are having fun and are willing to stay as long as she is.

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