One size fits all? NOT!

May 2, 2009

in Sexuality

© Frenk And Danielle Kaufmann | Dreamstime.comA spam message I’ve noticed a few times recently says “Arouse the Passion of Any Woman, Anytime, Anywhere.”  I have no idea what they are selling, as I have no intention of clicking on the link. What bothers me (besides the fact I get so much spam) is the idea there is some magic pill or technique that can “turn on” any woman, no matter what.

I’m sure we all know it doesn’t work that way, but from my e-mail I know many men are looking for the fast easy to more and better sex. Bad news guys, there is no magic way to make your wife want more sex starting right now. However, there are things you can do to will move things in the desired direction. The next few Saturdays I will be sharing ideas based on the book Sex on the Brain: 12 Lessons to Enhance Your Love Life by Daniel G. Amen M.D..  I like Dr. Amen for a number of reasons:

  • He is a true scientists – he follows the facts no matter where they take him.
  • He says “Sex is best in the context of a committed, loving relationship.” – A statement he feels is the clear conclusion of science.
  • He has spent many years studying the brain and how it works.
  • He is not afraid to make the unPC claim men and women are fundamentally different at the brain level. (Something scientifically undeniable, which is often skirted none-the-less.)

There will not be a sure fire secret, but there will be some good information that may start to move things in the right direction.

1 comments
eppvolvo
eppvolvo

The older I get the more I see how true this is. I give no apologies for using metaphors even though some despise me for it, but we men need to get off the interstate to sex and onto the back roads that take us through the kitchen making breakfast for the children in the morning, the telephone call in the middle of the day just to chat, the "unintentional" brush of her hair as you pass her in the hall when you are taking out the trash, the sneaky chocolate on her pillow before she comes to bed, and yes, the, "Oh I can wait dear, your are worth waiting for" that comes out of your mouth even though you didn't want to say it, and the sweet smile before you both go to sleep that you give her.(well OK you might not be sleeping) Gentlemen, if you want blood to flow to her genitals take the back roads and boy will you be surprised!

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