Get on her right side

May 9, 2009

in Sexuality

If you are to the right side of someone (right of centre) you are being processed more by their left brain than their right brain. Because of how the different hemispheres of the brain work, this is a good thing for you.  Studies have shown sales people make more sales when they are to the right of the person to whom they are making a sales pitch.

Does this work in marriage too?  It probably does.  Dr. Amen says “If you kiss someone on the right side of the body, she likely processed the kiss more intensely on the left side of her brain, the happier side of the brain, and she is more likely to continue.” (Pp 77 of Sex on the Brain: 12 Lessons to Enhance Your Love Life by Daniel G. Amen M.D.).  I’d suggest taking it even further – try being to her right during foreplay, and see if it makes a difference.

This is not going to solve any deep sexual problems, but if your bride loves you and enjoys sex it may make sex easier and/or better for her – and for you.

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1 comments
eppvolvo
eppvolvo

I have found this to be very true. I have practiced this for more than 10 years. Lots of small things with your bride add up to lots of big things for you, and her.

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