When you have one of those days at work that sucks the life out of you, it’s natural to feel you deserve a bit of babying or special consideration. But before you start down that road, may I suggest figure out if your wife is also feeling empty. Does she also feel she deserves of a break? Take long enough to find out where she is, and what she may need. If she’s fine, then let her take extra care of you; if she’s not, don’t expect special treatment.
Bonus: If you’re both beat, you have an opportunity to bless her by doing for her what you don’t even what to do for yourself!