Spend some time with your bride, but in a very particular way. Go where you can be alone, and sit for several minutes (five or more) not talking or doing anything (hold hands or sit arm in arm, but just sit – still and quiet). Think about your bride, and what she means to you. Think about all she does that blesses you, and what you would like to be different. Think about what you do “for her” and what she would like you to do that you do not. At the same time, have her think these things about you.
Then talk.
