Imagine making a pie chart of how you spend your waking time over a month. If time with your bride were pink, while time actually doing something with your bride were red, would there be enough of those colours to even show up on a six inch pie? How much of the 487 or so waking hours in the month would be red?
BTW, if more than half your pie chart (about 56 hours a week) is work or work commuting, maybe you work too much? Do you really need to work that much to provide a reasonable life for your family, or are you cheating them of you to buy things no one really needs more than they need a dad and husband?