Of the 50,000+ men who answered the “Great Male Survey“, a mere 13% reported they are entirely satisfied with their sex lives. Of course there are all kinds of problems with a poll like this, but with a result such as that, it seems safe to say a lot of men are less than fully satisfied
If you are among the less than satisfied majority, what would it take for you to say you were entirely satisfied? Sex more often? More variety? More enthusiasm from your bride, or more enjoyment on her part? More of a certain act or position? All of the above?
If you are not fully satisfied, you can be sure your bride knows that – even if you try to hide it. But knowing you are less than satisfied, and knowing all of why you are less than satisfied are two very different things. If you argue about one point (like wanting more sex) but don’t discuss all of what you want, she does not have a clear and balanced picture. Lacking the whole picture, you may seem petty, selfish, or unreasonable, and without all the facts she certainly is limited in how she can improve the situation.
If you are not satisfied, I strongly suggest discussing it with her – but discussing all of it. If she, or you, or both of you, are sick of discussing the issue, maybe start with “I know you know I want ____, but did you know I also desire _____?” If you feel emotionally distant, or disconnected by a sexual lack, let he know that. Let her know you desire her for more than just the physical.