Comments on: More time on her breasts http://www.the-generous-husband.com/2010/06/15/more-time-on-her-breast/ Daily tips on being a better husband. Wed, 08 Feb 2012 00:15:35 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: Eleutheros http://www.the-generous-husband.com/2010/06/15/more-time-on-her-breast/comment-page-1/#comment-978 Eleutheros Wed, 16 Jun 2010 12:37:13 +0000 http://www.the-generous-husband.com/?p=2997#comment-978 This is really good stuff here! Of course, my reply isn't 'reliable' for all, but I certianly know how much my precious one enjoys much of what you describe here- she will climax just from breast stimulation alone, <i> if *I* set her up for it.</i> I want to add two more things to your excellent 'honey-do' list. Do all of these things in front of a mirror so she can watch you. Then put on a show. Also you can provide her with a large hand mirror (we keep one in her bedside drawer- it is a very useful item!) so she can watch you from different angles. ( Of course, a good perception of her own body is assumed anytime a mirror is introduced into love-making) After first dwelling on one and then the other do <i>both</i> nipples simultaneously by cupping her breast close together and flicking your tounge rapidly over both of them. This is easy enough on medium to large breasts and for us it works well toward bringing her to climax. I can't speak of whether this will work with smaller breasted women ' cause I have no experience there to speak from. Just my two cents worth for knowing how to be good for her! And <i>that's</i> being good, just as I was created to be! This is really good stuff here!

Of course, my reply isn’t ‘reliable’ for all, but I certianly know how much my precious one enjoys much of what you describe here- she will climax just from breast stimulation alone, if *I* set her up for it.

I want to add two more things to your excellent ‘honey-do’ list.

Do all of these things in front of a mirror so she can watch you. Then put on a show. Also you can provide her with a large hand mirror (we keep one in her bedside drawer- it is a very useful item!) so she can watch you from different angles. ( Of course, a good perception of her own body is assumed anytime a mirror is introduced into love-making)

After first dwelling on one and then the other do both nipples simultaneously by cupping her breast close together and flicking your tounge rapidly over both of them. This is easy enough on medium to large breasts and for us it works well toward bringing her to climax. I can’t speak of whether this will work with smaller breasted women ‘ cause I have no experience there to speak from.

Just my two cents worth for knowing how to be good for her!

And that’s being good, just as I was created to be!

]]> By: The Generous Husband http://www.the-generous-husband.com/2010/06/15/more-time-on-her-breast/comment-page-1/#comment-975 The Generous Husband Wed, 16 Jun 2010 02:56:46 +0000 http://www.the-generous-husband.com/?p=2997#comment-975 @Skip - I have said a number of times that the TMB surveys are fun but totally worthless. Aside from being a very non-random group, it's opt in. Opt-in studies tend to get those who feel strongly, and especially those with an ax to grind. SO you will have a disproportionate number of women who think breast stimulation is the best thing in the world (a small group I think) and those who REALLY dislike it. The study I mentioned was done of a well selected cross section of people (it did men and women) so I would have a lot more faith in it. I would note the group of women was young and I would guess mostly single, but those things should not change the results significantly, other than mental/emotional issues which might well be more common as a woman ages. @Skip – I have said a number of times that the TMB surveys are fun but totally worthless. Aside from being a very non-random group, it’s opt in. Opt-in studies tend to get those who feel strongly, and especially those with an ax to grind. SO you will have a disproportionate number of women who think breast stimulation is the best thing in the world (a small group I think) and those who REALLY dislike it.

The study I mentioned was done of a well selected cross section of people (it did men and women) so I would have a lot more faith in it. I would note the group of women was young and I would guess mostly single, but those things should not change the results significantly, other than mental/emotional issues which might well be more common as a woman ages.

]]> By: Skip http://www.the-generous-husband.com/2010/06/15/more-time-on-her-breast/comment-page-1/#comment-974 Skip Tue, 15 Jun 2010 22:24:54 +0000 http://www.the-generous-husband.com/?p=2997#comment-974 Okay Paul, I think this is a good article, but I read this after I read this thread on TMB http://www.boards.themarriagebed.com/viewtopic.php?f=94&t=42132 where the majority of the respondents said they did NOT like breast and nipple play. So which is right??? I know .......... they are probably both are. I have gone through married life believing what you wrote above, that most women like it. But now I am wondering if many women tolerate it because they know their husbands like it, even though they don't like it or it causes them pain. I know that surgery definitely decreases pleasure since my wife has decreased pleasure after her lumpectomy/reduction surgeries. She has basically told me I am wasting my time there, even though I like it. Okay Paul, I think this is a good article, but I read this after I read this thread on TMB http://www.boards.themarriagebed.com/viewtopic.php?f=94&t=42132 where the majority of the respondents said they did NOT like breast and nipple play. So which is right??? I know ………. they are probably both are. I have gone through married life believing what you wrote above, that most women like it. But now I am wondering if many women tolerate it because they know their husbands like it, even though they don’t like it or it causes them pain.

I know that surgery definitely decreases pleasure since my wife has decreased pleasure after her lumpectomy/reduction surgeries. She has basically told me I am wasting my time there, even though I like it.

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