Comments on: If she is more vulnerable… http://www.the-generous-husband.com/2010/07/23/if-she-is-weaker/ Daily tips on being a better husband. Wed, 08 Feb 2012 00:15:35 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: The Generous Husband http://www.the-generous-husband.com/2010/07/23/if-she-is-weaker/comment-page-1/#comment-1170 The Generous Husband Sun, 25 Jul 2010 19:57:06 +0000 http://www.the-generous-husband.com/?p=3569#comment-1170 @N&U - I love "lets me be vulnerable". Most of us, male and female, can be a brick wall if we have not choice - but long term that is not good for us emotionally. Also, men should note that being a brick wall takes a lot out of anyone, and reduces their ability to do other things that don't come easily - which for many women includes sex. @N&U – I love “lets me be vulnerable”. Most of us, male and female, can be a brick wall if we have not choice – but long term that is not good for us emotionally.

Also, men should note that being a brick wall takes a lot out of anyone, and reduces their ability to do other things that don’t come easily – which for many women includes sex.

]]> By: Newlywed & Unemployed http://www.the-generous-husband.com/2010/07/23/if-she-is-weaker/comment-page-1/#comment-1162 Newlywed & Unemployed Fri, 23 Jul 2010 23:18:04 +0000 http://www.the-generous-husband.com/?p=3569#comment-1162 Once upon a time, I was an emotional tank. I could handle anything. That was in my previous marriage and part of being able to be that solid and strong involved putting away a lot of my femininity. Anything that made me feel vulnerable. This time around, my husband lets me be vulnerable as often as I need (and it's still exceptionally rare..) I have bad days; I have emotions I don't entirely understand. He doesn't judge me and as a result of being free to feel vulnerable, I've begun reintegrating feminine aspects into my appearance and attitudes. He wins. He doesn't baby me or protect me, but there is a lot to be said for letting a woman drop some of her modern day "manly roles" by helping her feel safe enough to be vulnerable. .-= Newlywed & Unemployed´s last blog ..<a href="http://newlywedandunemployed.blogspot.com/2010/07/three-things-i-now-know.html">Three Things I Now Know</a> =-. Once upon a time, I was an emotional tank. I could handle anything. That was in my previous marriage and part of being able to be that solid and strong involved putting away a lot of my femininity. Anything that made me feel vulnerable.

This time around, my husband lets me be vulnerable as often as I need (and it’s still exceptionally rare..) I have bad days; I have emotions I don’t entirely understand. He doesn’t judge me and as a result of being free to feel vulnerable, I’ve begun reintegrating feminine aspects into my appearance and attitudes.

He wins. He doesn’t baby me or protect me, but there is a lot to be said for letting a woman drop some of her modern day “manly roles” by helping her feel safe enough to be vulnerable.
.-= Newlywed & Unemployed´s last blog ..Three Things I Now Know =-.

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