Last week my wonderful wife posted the following for the ladies:
Give your husband’s ideas a hearing. It’s easy to think that the best or only way of doing something is the way we think it should be done. Hard reality is that there are usually a number of ways of doing something and mostly it’s about preference. So, bless your husband, listen to his ideas, and make room for his preferences.
It is better to listen in order to understand than to listen in order to reply. Author Unknown
Be generous! Lori <><
We need to do the same for our brides! Don’t just “make room” for her preferences, be sure she knows you want to make room for her preferences. Even more than that, try to find places where her preferences are very strong, and go out of your way to let her indulge herself in those areas.