With very few exceptions, the vast majority of women love a massage. From a shoulder or foot rub to a full body massage, it’s a great way to get her to relax, and it will make the two of you feel closer.
If you want to do more of this for her, but just don’t think of it, this Valentine’s give her coupons for various massages from you. Small short massages can be spur of the moment, longer ones will need to be scheduled. Include a variety of massages and lengths of time – this is also a great way to learn what she most enjoys.
If sex is a problem area for your marriage, keep the massages non-sexual. If sex is jointly desired and enjoyed, toss in a couple of coupons for an erotic massage – with the promise of the “happy ending” of her choice! If she is all about sex, consider an Orgasmic Massage.