If you think of marriage counselling as nothing but a last-ditch effort for those on the brink of divorce, I would urge you to rethink. Any marriage can be helped by a skilled third-party, and in many cases a bit of preventative maintenance can avoid a disaster all together.
Also, be aware that marriage coaching is increasingly available. Rather than dealing just with problems, coaching helps you grow and improve.
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