Listen and learn

July 8, 2011

in Her Needs, None of the Above, Spicy Quote, Understanding Her

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“People tend to criticize their spouse in the area they are most desiring love.” @DrGaryChapman:

This is one of those short comments that is both brilliant and deep. Listen to your bride; listen to what she criticizes or complains about, both about you and about others. In this, you will find the things she most cares about, and the areas where she most feels love, or where she is most needs to feel loved.

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Kathleen Keene
Kathleen Keene

Do you think the opposite holds true as well, that what a husband criticizes or complains about is the thing he cares about the most, and so on and so forth?


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