This is one more follow-up on the Stop It! post from Sunday.
Take a vacation from blame, accusation, anger, checking up on her, and nagging her. Or, if that’s too much, pick one of those things that you do far too often, and choose to not do it, at all, for a week.
At the end of the week, how do you feel? Did your life/marriage get better or worse? Is your bride any different? Were you able to stop doing whatever, or did you keep slipping? If you could not stop, what does that say about you?