1001

October 31, 2011

in Good Marriage

1001! © Paul H. ByerlyThis is my one thousand and first post here since moving to WordPress.

In many ways this blog is like a marriage. To do it right, I have to show up every day* – no matter how I feel, no matter how it went yesterday, and no matter how I expect to do. Some days are better than others are; some days are great, and some days stink. Some days are new and exciting, while others feel like reruns. We should look back to learn from our mistakes, but if we focus too much on the past we can’t do any good today. Finally, it’s good to celebrate mile stones.

So hang in there in your marriage. Just showing up is not enough, but it’s a necessary start, and it’s more than some men are doing.

 

*My commitment here is to post daily. Most others post less often and I am not suggesting they should post daily or that I am better because I post more often.

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8 comments
JimW
JimW

Just stumbled onto your site on the 31st - and happy 1001!! - poking back through the archives I see you are addressing key issues without bashfulness - nicely done - anxious to see what tomorrow brings!!

Andy
Andy

Awesome :-) God has greatly blessed our marriage through your work!

J (Hot, Holy & Humorous)
J (Hot, Holy & Humorous)

I am rather impressed by your daily posting! I think the constant reminders to us to work on our marriages is wonderful. Congrats on your 1001th and keep encouraging us all!

Jeremy
Jeremy

Congrats! Just like every good marriage needs great encouragement from those that care about you, we care about you! Thank you for your generous time and tips! My marriage is a better marriage as we all try to follow the example of Jesus. You are a blessing and encouragement to me. I read your tip every morning and ask the Lord how this applies to my life and how I can implement change today. I pray blessings on you and your bride and especially in your ministries! Keep up the great work!

LovingMyLady
LovingMyLady

Congratulations, Paul! Your dedication and commitment to our Lord, your marriage, and your blog are an inspiration. Abundant blessings!

Cobus
Cobus

Hi Paul, Well done and CONGRATULATIONS! I really appreciate your blog and I must be one of thousands of men who are trying to be generous and who are feeling and seeing the difference in their marriages. May our God and Father richly bless you in every way for the work you are doing in His kingdom. We love you.

The Generous Husband
The Generous Husband

@ All - thanks! @ J - I'm impressed too - with God. It's way beyond what I could do, so it is clearly Him!

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