There are almost certainly several items on that list which your bride would like more of from you. There are no doubt several on the list which you would like more of from her. Do you think not giving her more of what she wants will cause her to give you more of what you want? Do you think giving her even less of what she wants will cause her to see the light and give you more of what you want?
Do your actions suggest you think giving her less will get you more?
Links to blog posts that stood out to me this last week:
Between The Sheets
Making 2012 Your Best Year Yet! : Five tips that could make a massive difference.
Black and Married with Kids
Cut Your Spouse Some Slack : Always a good thing, and not as tough as you might think.
2012 – The Year Of No More Excuses! : I’m in – are you?
Tell the Truth, Even When It Hurts : Yes!
Instead of Making New Resolutions for 2012, How About Finishing What You Started: Now he be meddlin’ …
Do You Share Your Goals? : Yup, this is important.
Hot, Holy and Humorous
Hot, Holy and Humorous: High Standards, Low Expectations: A Plan for 2012: A great mix
Hot, Holy and Humorous: ESPN Comes to the Bedroom: Words can not describe how awesomely wrong this is. Or is it wrongly awesome
Intimacy in Marriage
What a Shark Taught Me About Sex : Are you feeding your shark well?
Journey to Surrender
2011 Hot Topics: If you don’t know Scott’s blog, this is a great way to get to know it.
Laugh Your Way to a Better Marriage
Resolve to be Thankful: Not a day or a season, but a way of life.
Support Military Marriages as Troops Return: My suggestion is to offer prayer and free babysitting.
A New Year’s Sexolution: ¡Viva la Revolución!
One Flesh Marriage
The Pure Bed’s Blog
3 Things We Think Married Couples Must Know (About sex): I love the balance on the first one!
Romantic Act of the Day
The Romantic Vineyard
Amazing Grace: Nice post – is your worship messing up your marriage?
The Romantic Gourmet Date Night Idea : Great Idea – if you can cook.
Let’s Take A Walk: This activity may have saved our sanity, if not our marriage.
How Big is Your Why: A good thing to ponder.
Stupendous Marriage Show 027 – Advice to Brides and a Key to Happy Retirement: Still going strong.
…to Love Honor and Vacuum
THE 50 BEST MARRIAGE QUOTES OF 2011: This is an excellent list! Almost a marriage book in itself.
10 TOP POSTS FOR 2011 : I generally avoid top ten posts, but the stuff here is just too good to not mention it.