For the next twenty-one days, write down three good things about your bride or your marriage. Do it every day, and do not repeat anything. Do it on paper, or a document on your computer or phone, but do it every day and put them all in the same place.
The result? You will feel better about your bride, and your marriage, and you will learn to see more of the positive in both.
Doubt me? Try it, really try it, and if it doesn’t work, THEN you can tell me it’s garbage.