I have discovered many women are frustrated or offended their husband only wants sex for physical pleasure. Thing is, I can’t find all these men who only want sex for the physical. Frankly, if men only cared about the physical part of sex, the human race would be extinct. We can give ourselves the physical pleasure any time we like!
I do, however, understand why so many women think their guy only cares about orgasm. Men are more focused on the physical than the average woman. That, and how we communicate about sex, can give the wrong impression.
Listen to what you say about sex. Listen to how you ask for sex, what you say when you talk about how great it is, and how you joke about sex. Look for ways you might be communicating you only care about the physical. Next, think about other reasons you like sex. With all this in mind, figure out how to change your sexual dialogue to better communicate what sex with your bride means to you.