Ever notice how people’s strengths can become their weakness? The person who is independent fails to build good relationships because he won’t trust others. The man who is unconcerned about what others think cannot be corrected. The man who listens to everyone well loses the ability to voice his own needs. The peacemaker is so unwilling to deal with conflict his wife is deeply frustrated. Any strength/good quality can be taken too far, becoming a problem, a flaw, a weakness.
We tend to be good at identifying our strengths, not not our weaknesses. Think about your strengths, and the problems that could come from taking those qualities too far. Then look for signs you have gone too far – or ask your bride if she thinks you have.