I’ve seen several things recently indicating it is the small things that really matter in marriage. Small things are what touch our hearts. Small things give a better picture of the condition of our heart – if we feel love or just go through the motions. It has even been suggested most divorces are more about the weight of many small things than about a big problem – the big issues are the result of many small things going wrong and not getting fixed.
What are the small things you are doing in your marriage? Are they loving or unloving? Spend some effort watching and listening to the small things you say and do. Make changes as necessary.