Yesterday I talked about pushing her buttons – the ones that bless her. What about the other buttons, the ones that offend, hurt, and upset her?
In my mind, it is wrong to push those buttons – ever, for any reason. It’s cruel; it’s using what you know about her to hurt her. It is the very opposite of love.
I doubt I will get a lot of argument about this, but if you agree, what are you going to do the next time you push one of those buttons? Can you be big enough to admit to her you were wrong? Can you apologise, and can you apologise without making any mention of what she did to upset you enough you decided to push her buttons?