Want to give your wife a gift she really wants, a gift she will cherish for years to come? How about making a permanent change you know she wants? It might be no longer doing or saying something she does not like, or starting to do something she has indicated she would like you to do.
I know changes like this are not easy – the question you have to ask yourself is if she is worth it to you. If she is, do whatever it takes to make the change, and stick to it.
If you have a good idea what change she would like, I think the best option is to do it without saying anything. Let her figure it out; let her ask you about it when she sees the results.
If you have no idea what she would like you to change, you could ask her. If you think that could end badly, I will post a list of changes wives want next week as a way to get you thinking.