Can you make room for a few minutes of quiet time with your wife before bed this Christmas Eve?
Sit by the tree, or the fire, or a window overlooking the world under a blanket of snow, and snuggle up together with a cup of tea or hot chocolate. Share thoughts of Christmas past, both as a couple and when you were growing up. Tell her what a wonderful gift she has been to you. Let the quiet and the memories wrap around you in warmth.
Maybe a new tradition will be born.