A Romantic Meal

February 5, 2013

in Acts of Service, Aff Link, Quality Time, Romance

Note: This is for Valentines, but please apply at other times too.

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Our biology was created so we bond when we share a meal with someone. Eating causes oxytocin to be released into our bodies. Oxytocin causes us to feel close and connected to those we are with whom we’re eating. Oxytocin is also released when we touch, and especially during sex, with a peek at orgasm. Singing together is another way to get a group oxytocin release. Anything we do with our spouse that releases oxytocin is good for our health and our marriage. This means regular meals together help us feel closer, and build trust. If we take our time over a meal, the effect is even greater.

So, date night is scientifically valid. Unfortunately, it may also be financially challenging. Here are a few ideas to help if money is a concern:

  • Find a way to do lunch rather than dinner. Most “nice” places have a lunch menu with significantly lower costs.
  • Rewards cards. It is increasingly common for restaurants to have a club or reward cards that allow you to earn points good on future visits. Getting one free meal free for every five you buy adds up.
  • Go on Monday or Tuesday. These are typically slow days and some places have specials on those days.
  • Sign up for coupons. Many restaurants offer coupons by e-mail if you register with their web site or like them on facebook.
  • Try a discounted gift cards site (restaurant.com for example). You have to check the fine print (when is’t good, what is excluded, and the minimum you must spend), but if you find a place you really like this can be a big money saver.
  • Go for appetizers or dessert. Yes it’s way too much money for what you eat, but it can be a cheap date at a nice place.

Another great option is to have a nice cosy meal at home:

  • Presentation makes the difference. Nice place settings, candle light, a few flowers, confetti, or some other special touch. Don’t forget music.
  • Set up a small table some place other than where you usually eat.
  • Learn how to cook a few things she really likes and do them her from time to time (clean up to really bless her).
  • Get something you both like  “to go” from a restaurant, and serve it as above.
  • Do a simple snack, but make it a big deal.

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