Have you ever looked at what you think matters to you to see how it stacks up to how spend your time?
I realise much of what we do isn’t because it matters, but because the results matter. We work because having money matters; the job may or may not matter. We do some things not because they matter to us, but because they matter to those we love. Very few people have the luxury of doing just what they want.
What takes up our time says a lot about what really matters to us. If you think something matters and you rarely have time for it, something needs to change.
Speaking of this, how much time does your marriage get?