Is there mediocrity in your life? What about your marriage, are you settling for mediocrity there? If not, you are a rare man.
I am not talking about what others do. Being surrounded by mediocrity does increase the temptation to accept mediocrity in our lives, but we have a choice. We choose to accept mediocrity, or we choose to fight it. When mediocrity is the standard, only those who choose to be different will escape. If we do not fight it, then we allow it to creep into our lives, heart, families, jobs, and marriages.
Mediocrity does not stay in one area of our lives; like a cancer, it will spread to other areas if left unchecked. If you let it slip in at your job because no one else cares and you are underpaid, it is only a matter of time before it starts to crop up in other areas of your life.
Mediocrity is accepting something less than your best. It is deciding something is “good enough” and not making any effort to improve. Mediocrity can also be putting too much time and energy into things that do not benefit you or others. Entertainment is one thing, endless hours of television is another. Playing a game with the family is one thing, hours of FarmVille or Candy Crush is another. Getting good exercise is one thing, spending hours a day sculpting your body is another. Enjoying a good meal is one thing, becoming over weight is another.
Choosing something with a bit of value while ignoring things with far greater value is another form of mediocrity. This is a tricky one – we can justify what we are doing because it does benefit us and/or others. Perhaps we should be doing it some, but perhaps we should do it less so we can put more time into even more beneficial things.
Dealing with mediocrity is a big part of the 2014 Marriage Upgrade. Refuse to accept “okay” and become an awesome husband. Do not do it based on what she is doing, or what she might do in response; do it because it is the right thing to do. Do it because you refuse to accept mediocrity in your marriage or any other part of your life!
“Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men” [Col 3:23 ESV]