What Does She Want?

February 26, 2014

in 2014 Marriage Upgrade, Her Needs, Seeing Clearly, Series

Yesterday, I asked what you want in your marriage and suggested you make a list and pray about what you write down.

The next step is to ask your wife to do the same thing.

Her List © antpkr | freedigitalphotos.net

Show her my post from yesterday, tell her you’re working on your list and trying to make the final version fair and reasonable. Ask her if she will do the same thing, with the goal of looking at each other’s lists.

For this to work, your wife has to feel you won’t belittle her or get upset about what she writes. If she feels being honest will result in anger, she’ll hold back. The resulting list will make you feel better, but it will not be of any use to you or your marriage. 

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