Slow Side by Side Sex

My week of sex didn’t include any how to sex tips, so I’ll do some of those the next few Saturdays. 

This method is a great way to make her feel really good (aka have an orgasm), with the focus on her pleasure. It’s also a great for early morning, late night, or middle of the night (if you’re both into that) sex because it’s slow and easy. You can do this with her fully under the bed covers, so it’s good when it’s cold, or if she’s uncomfortable with her body. Some women will be fine with starting with this, others will want/need some foreplay before you move to it.

I’ll describe this for a right handed man – reverse if necessary. The image at the bottom gives you some idea of how to position yourself. 

She’s on her back; you’re to her right positioned on your left side. Her right leg can be bent and laying over both of your legs or between them. You take an egg vibrator and place it over her clitoris. Cup it in your right hand so you can apply pressure and move it up and down. Start the vibe on low and move it gently against her body. You can play with different movements, but up and down between her labia is likely to be the best. Don’t press the vibe into her vulva too much, and don’t move too fast. You want to warm her up slowly, increasing the stimulation gradually.

As she becomes aroused, you can slip your middle finger into her vagina. You may be able to press on her g-spot. Folding your ring and little finger in (make a partial fist) may be more comfortable for you.

Don’t limit stimulation to the vibe. Your left hand can stroke her face. You can kiss her on the lips and you can use your mouth on her right breast and nipple. Kissing her as she climaxes might be wonderful for her, or maybe you put her over the top by sucking on her nipple when she is close.

As she gets more and more aroused, she may start to thrust her hips. If she does this, you can hold your hand and the vibe still and let her move under you, or you can move your hand in the opposite direction of her movements to intensify them. 

Play with the speed of your hand movement, how firmly you press the vibe against her clitoris, and the speed of the vibe. Go slow, giving her time to enjoy the journey and build up to a massive orgasm. If she likes to be teased take her close, then slow down. This is a great technique for taking her to the edge repeatedly. If she demands you finish her you’ll have to determine if she means it or wants to be teased more (women vary on this, know your wife).

Once she’s done, what about you? 

Her right hand should be able to reach your penis in this position. If she is so inclined, she can fondle you as you pleasure her. This can result in you climaxing before, with, or shortly after she does. If she’s too relaxed to move after she climaxes, you can climb on top for a quickie (it will be quick, trust me). Whatever you do, don’t ask too much of her, let her bask in being the centre of attention.

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