About This Blog

August 8, 2012

About this blog

This blog is about learning how to “go the extra mile” for your wife, rather than doing only what you think is “required”. True generosity is giving someone what they most want and need, even if they don’t know they need it. Being a generous husband requires being a student of your wife – knowing her, learning what blesses her, what comforts her, what turns her on, what makes her feel secure, and so much more. I will discuss all areas of marriage, and the wondrous complexities of the female mind. I will provide hints and suggestions to help you find out who your bride is and how you can be the best, most generous husband possible.

Being a generous husband also requires you be strong and healthy. The better you feel about yourself, the more you can give to her; the better you feel about your life, the more easily you can sacrifice when necessary. To that end I will write about physical, mental, emotional and spiritual health. I will talk about your needs, and how you can lovingly share those needs with your wife.

Some posts are long, a few will be short. Some are one-off, some are multi-part series. You will receive a post each day. Be forewarned we talk about sex from time to time. There is no nudity or profanity, but some of it is not going to get past a strict work-place filter. Most sexual posts are done on Saturday, but there are exceptions.

I am a follower of Jesus, which I don’t hide here. That said, I don’t push it in every post. I have readers who don’t believe in God, and those who follow other faiths. I am also a student of science, which also shows up here from time to time. I have no problem reconciling these “two parts” of my life as I see pure science as the exploration of God’s creation. When science and theology are at odds, at least one is wrong, and it means we must check both and find the real truth.

Please join me in becoming a Generous Husband,

Also see Answers to a few common questions


Ok, I throw it out there again!

Male multiple Orgasm doesn't appear on the Christian Sexuality RADAR! Why? It must have got lost in the translation somewhere or deleted.

I spent most of yesterday looking for Christian publications on this subject and only found two books one of which was fictional. Perhaps there is Christians that are writing about this subject but as yet I've only found one

Sexuality is Gods gift to us and yes sin has distorted this gift. God's gift of sexuality is like a playground with a protective fence around it (Limitations=Biblical instructions). It's a big playground, swing, sandpit slippery slide etc, all there for our enjoyment. There is no forbidden swing or slide. What is forbidden is outside the protective fence (like mowing your neighbour's grass) So why is there so much shame angst, denial and guilt when it comes to exploring the playground?

We are over the Evangelical Guilt Riden Sexuality!

We off exploring the playground.