Sex and the Fear of Looking Stupid

March 21, 2015

When I asked women why they don’t give handjobs when hubby wants sex and they do not, one woman in five said, “I don’t know how to do it well.” This answer was second only to “He gets all the sex he wants”. Apparently some men would get more if their wife were willing to say, “Help […]

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Friday Flashback: For Her Body Only

March 20, 2015

What forms of touch are for her body only? Kissing? Kissing other than the cheek? Stroking of some part of her body? Dancing? The world has made touch, including sexual touch, common. Saving certain forms of touch just for her makes her special. It makes what you do with her sacred rather than common. The one […]

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Dreams: His, Hers, and Ours

March 19, 2015

If you’re reading this blog I assume you either are or want to be married. This means living your dreams isn’t as simple as jumping in and doing it – or at least is shouldn’t be! Being head of the home doesn’t mean you get to live your dreams while ignoring who God made your […]

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Dreams: Timing Matters

March 18, 2015

Timing is everything. This is true for most things in life, and it’s certainly vital when we talk about following our dreams.  Following a dream too soon leads to frustration and/or failure. Following a dream too late is as bad as or worse than going for it too soon. Even if your starting time is right, […]

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Got Dreams? Got too Many?

March 17, 2015

Apparently, some folks don’t have many dreams. I’ve always had more dreams than I can count, so I can’t relate to a lack of dreams. My wife had no dreams when we married, and while I accepted her reality, it still seemed strange to me. I suspect those who don’t have dreams actually do have […]

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Your Dreams and Your Marriage

March 16, 2015

A couple of you emailed me encouraging me to write more about living our dreams. I’m all about it, but I always ask myself if something is marriage related enough to get a good deal of space here.  While finding and living/following our dream seems to be all about us, I’m convinced it’s a huge […]

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Who Does God Say You Are?

March 15, 2015

Last year when I went to bootcamp, it was suggested we each ask God His name for us during one of our times alone with God. For some reason I didn’t want to do it, so I skipped to the next question. God answered the second question in a way that told me the name He […]

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Becoming Yourself Sexually

March 14, 2015

I’ve been talking about becoming yourself. What about becoming yourself sexually? Who did God intend you to be sexually? Most of us have no idea who we are supposed to be sexually because we’ve received wrong programming about sex since before we can remember. I first saw porn at seven, and by puberty my sexuality […]

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