Who Does Media Say You Are?

July 16, 2014

I grew up in the late 60′s and the 70′s. I saw the older shows where father knew best, and the newer shows where father was a buffoon who seems to have contributed little to his family other than sperm. In a couple of decades, media took men from essentially perfect to totally worthless.  It […]

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Who Does Society Say You Are?

July 15, 2014

Ever feel society has it out for men? We are scary! We hurt people and destroy things. We need to be policed closely and limited whenever and wherever possible. Say something negative about women and you get attacked. Say something negative about men and you are brave and wise. No, I have not taken the red […]

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Who Does Your Family Say You Are?

July 14, 2014

The family you grew up with has a huge impact on who think you are. I probably should have been left handed. My father was, and my son is. As an adult I see signs my brain favours my left hand. However, when my father was young being left handed made many things in life […]

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Who Does God Say You Are?

July 13, 2014

One of the most difficult things in this world is being yourself. Since before we can remember people have been trying to make us someone other than we are. Our parents try to shape us for our own good, but they also try to shape us to make life easier for them. Our friends want […]

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Friends With Benefits is Biblical??

July 12, 2014

As you many have guessed, I am a fan of Song of Songs in the Bible. Yes, it is far more sexual than most translations make it. A literal reading could not be shared on radio in the USofA. However, one of the most important verses is about much more than sex. “His mouth is […]

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Friday Flashback: Romance and Great Sex for a Lifetime

July 11, 2014

In an article in the March issue of the Review of General Psychology (pdf here), researchers say what some already knew: romance and sex can stay strong as a marriage ages. According to the study, “romantic love – defined as having intensity, engagement and sexual interest – does exist in long-term relationships.”   I have […]

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Why God Made Marriage

July 10, 2014

About once a month, I see someone blog or comment something about the purpose of marriage is not to make us happy, or “God created marriage to ______ not to make us happy”. These well-meaning folks Drive.Me.Crazy! I do not think God created marriage to grow us up, or to show us our faults. Yes, it does […]

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Don’t Use Her Words to Hurt Her!

July 9, 2014

In the Love and Respect Live Marriage Conference DVD series Emerson Eggerichs makes a passionate plea for couples to not harm his ministry by using what he teaches to hurt each other. I cannot tell you how much I resonate with that! Knowledge is power, and power can be used for good or bad. We can use what […]

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