Friday Flashback: Random Massage

October 17, 2014

Put a die her night table along with a card saying something like the following: Roll the die for a massage 1=Feet 2=Legs 3=Butt 4=Back 5=Shoulders 6=Your choice Modify as best for the two of you. Tell her when she rolls, you will massage. [Originally posted May 15th, 2009] Links may be monetisedImage Credit: © Olegkalina | […]

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Don’t Be Content With Where You Are

October 16, 2014

The idea of not being content with where we are was mentioned once at the beginning of the retreat. Much of what followed built on the idea. con·tent adjective \kən-ˈtent\ : pleased and satisfied : not needing more [m-w.com] Contentment can be dangerous thing. It is good to learn to be okay with our life and situation even […]

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A Bored Man is Never a Good Thing!

October 15, 2014

Over the next few weeks, my posts will include things I heard and thought during the retreat I attended last weekend. The material was original, but most was along the lines of the four streams John Eldredge discusses in Waking the Dead: The Glory of a Heart Fully Alive. The issue of men being bored was mentioned several times.  Men […]

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Words and Wisdom: The Bible

October 14, 2014

This week the CMBA “Weekly Words of Wisdom” topic is words and wisdom from the Bible. This one hits me hard. When Lori and I were having problems the first couple of years of our marriage (in the mid 80’s), we could not find anyone willing to help because we said our primary problems were sexual. We […]

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Please Play With Me!

October 13, 2014

An hour ago, (as I write this) we got back from a full day “in town”. We do this about once every three weeks. As we work from home this is one of the few times our dog Widget is alone for eight hours. When we got home we had all kinds of things to do, […]

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Get Some Perspective

October 12, 2014

I mentioned I am at a men’s retreat this weekend. I am attending The Four Streams, a follow up to the Boot Camp I did last spring. The events are hosted by a group of men who met at Wild At Heart conferences done by Ransomed Heart Ministries. They decided there was a need for similar gatherings here […]

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5 Things I Wish Someone had told me about Female Sexuality

October 11, 2014

Over on One Flesh Marriage, Kate wrote a post good enough to steal – 5 Things I Wish Someone had told me about Sex. I read a lot about sex when I was young, and I thought I knew all there was to know about being a great lover. As with most things, theory and practice are […]

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Friday Flashback: She May be Beat Too

October 10, 2014

When you have one of those days at work that sucks the life out of you, it is natural to feel you deserve a bit of babying or special consideration. But before you start down that road, may I suggest you figure out if your wife is also feeling empty. Does she also feel she deserves of […]

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