Friday Flashback: Were You the Last One Who Could Have Avoided It?

February 17, 2017

Texas has (maybe had?) an interesting traffic law – the last person who could avoid an accident was required to do so. This means, for example, if someone runs a red light when you have a green, and you see them and don’t try to stop, you will be held partially liable. The reason for […]

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Analyse How She Uses the Golden Rule

February 16, 2017

Yesterday I said the Golden Rule often fails in marriages. But it can still be a useful tool if you look at what your wife does for you that you don’t want. If she gives you something you don’t want, or something you find only marginally nice, she’s probably giving you what she wants you to give her. […]

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Why the Golden Rule Fails in Marriages

February 15, 2017

In most situations, “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you” works rather well. Our basic needs and wants are fairly similar, so doing what we want to be done to us or giving what we want to receive is rather safe. Except in marriage. I bet you have had times of confusion […]

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How to Make Valentine’s Just Another Day

February 14, 2017

Are you tired of February 14th being a make or break day that affects the rest of the month, or beyond? I have a solution. I think one reason some women make such a huge deal about Valentine’s Day is they feel starved for romance all the time. If there was one day a year focused […]

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Your Final Valentine’s Reminder

February 13, 2017

If you’ve been living in a cave and/or don’t want to be living in the doghouse the rest of the week, please be aware tomorrow is Valentine’s Day.   Some women are big on Valentine’s, while others are not, but failure to do something loving on a day designated as the day of love is […]

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Read Together, Grow Together

February 12, 2017

I recently had someone email me asking how he could work on spiritual leadership with his wife. I suggested they read through the Bible together and sent him a copy of the Bible in a year plan our church is using. Reading the Bible together is good for both your walk with God and your walk with […]

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“You’re More Important to Me Than My Penis”

February 11, 2017

I’m not actually suggesting you tell your wife she is more important to you than your penis. Aside from not being at all romantic, telling her this is a waste of breath if your life has not already made her aware of where she and your little guy rank on your list of importance. I realise […]

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Friday Flashback: Looks That Speak Words You’d Never Say to Her

February 10, 2017

Do your looks or body language say things to her you would never speak out loud? [This post first appeared January 4, 2010.] Links may be monetised Image Credit: © ave_mario | Shop Amazon ♦ Shop to give links page We’re donation supported Thanks for your help! Where we’re going Contact us about speaking

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