Get Some Perspective

October 12, 2014

I mentioned I am at a men’s retreat this weekend. I am attending The Four Streams, a follow up to the Boot Camp I did last spring. The events are hosted by a group of men who met at Wild At Heart conferences done by Ransomed Heart Ministries. They decided there was a need for similar gatherings here […]

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5 Things I Wish Someone had told me about Female Sexuality

October 11, 2014

Over on One Flesh Marriage, Kate wrote a post good enough to steal – 5 Things I Wish Someone had told me about Sex. I read a lot about sex when I was young, and I thought I knew all there was to know about being a great lover. As with most things, theory and practice are […]

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Friday Flashback: She May be Beat Too

October 10, 2014

When you have one of those days at work that sucks the life out of you, it is natural to feel you deserve a bit of babying or special consideration. But before you start down that road, may I suggest you figure out if your wife is also feeling empty. Does she also feel she deserves of […]

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Desert Your Wife!

October 9, 2014

Yes, I am telling you to leave your wife… for a few hours or a few days.  Men need time with other men. No matter how wonderful your wife is, she is not a man, and she cannot give you some of what you need to receive with other men.  Arrange a regular guys’ movie […]

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Dessert Your Wife!

October 8, 2014

Take your wife out for dessert, bring home a nice dessert for the two of you, or cook up something sweet to share with her. If you are short on time or money, this is a great way to have a date. Or, make it a special thing you do for her on occasion. If […]

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Is Efficiency Hurting Your Marriage?

October 7, 2014

I’m big on efficient use of time. You cook while I work, or I’ll cook while you work. You do shopping on one side of the store while I do the other. We get more done, what’s not to love? The problem with this is I am gaining efficiency at the cost of relationship. I am losing […]

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Words and Wisdom: Family

October 6, 2014

The CMBA, of which I am a part, is doing “Weekly Words of Wisdom” in October – sharing words that encouraged us in our marriage and wisdom that guided and strengthened our marriage. This week is words and wisdom from family. If you have read much of what I have shared about my family, you know this is a bit […]

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Helping Her Be Who God Intended

October 5, 2014

The Bible tells me I am to be to my wife as Christ is to the church. Given how imperfect I am, and always will be, I find this rather daunting! Issues of perfection aside, what does it mean to be like Jesus to my wife? What does Jesus do for us, and can/should I […]

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