Marriage Mission & Vision Statement

July 26, 2015

Ever written a marriage mission/vision statement? In A Goal Oriented Marriage?? I mentioned a few of my marriage goals.  Then I read an article by a man who said he and his wife replaced. “Love honour and obey” in their marriage vows with “I promise to show you a good time.”  They did all kinds of […]

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Slow Side by Side Sex

July 25, 2015

My week of sex didn’t include any how to sex tips, so I do some of those the next few Saturdays.  This method is a great way to make her feel really good (aka have an orgasm), with the focus on her pleasure. It’s also a great for early morning, late night, or middle of […]

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Friday Flashback: Don’t Just Help, Stand There – or Go Away

July 24, 2015

Sometimes the best service you can offer is to do nothing at all. She may have a need to do certain things herself, or to do it “her way”. Sometimes it’s not just about it being done her way, she wants to do it herself.  It could be a sense of accomplishment, or doing certain things may […]

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So Much Coffee!

July 23, 2015

I wanted to take a moment to thank the more than 325 of you who sent money to help us get on the road. Without your help, it would have taken us a couple more years to get everything ready. At this point, we feel very good about hitting our Sept 20th launch date. We […]

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Give Her a Nudge

July 22, 2015

A nudge is something that makes a good decision slightly easier, and/or the opposing bad decision slightly less easy. Richard H. Thaler and Cass R. Sunstein discuss the power of nudging in their book Nudge: Improving Decisions About Health, Wealth, and Happiness. Nudges aren’t going to solve big problems or cause anyone to make huge changes, but they […]

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The Big Why – Take 2

July 21, 2015

A couple of years ago I wrote The Big Why, and I think it’s was time to cover the idea again. Making changes is easy to do when we understand why we, or someone else, does what we/they do. When we understand the why we can deal with the behaviour at its base. The problem is […]

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Love is Like Solar Power

July 20, 2015

I’ve been fascinated with solar energy since the early 70’s – when it was more dream than reality. I fully intended to put solar on the RV, and when we got the rig God gave us we found it had a good start. I’ve had a blast learning all things solar. And, because it’s how my […]

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Sex As An Empty Place

July 19, 2015

When I wrote Do You Know Your Empty Places? a couple of months ago, one of you suggested discussing sex as an empty place. In my original post I said, “We all have empty places. Places where we lack something we want or need. Because we feel strongly motivated to fill empty places, they have a […]

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