Base Your Praise on What it Cost Her

September 22, 2016

It’s human nature to judge things based on how they affect us or what it would take for us to do things. We then tend to assume others feel the same way about things and that it takes as much or as little for them to do things as it take us. Given how different […]

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What Do You Think We Should Write?

September 21, 2016

Lori and I have been talking about writing books for years.* The last year and a half to two years we’ve both felt a need to write books. (If you write, you understand.) The problem has been finding time. So this winter we’re hiding out somewhere we’re going to do some writing.  We have some […]

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Why “Can I Be Pathetic?” Is A Great Question

September 20, 2016

The other day our son strolled up to our place after a much-needed nap. As he sat on the couch trying to be awake he said “Can I be pathetic…? and then asked if I’d make him coffee. It was funny because he learned “Can I be pathetic?” from Lori and me. I doubt we […]

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What Could You Do With A Big Jar of Money?

September 19, 2016

Imagine having a fund for fun with your wife. From a last minute pizza date to helping pay for a cruise, the money is only used for marriage fun. Get a large jar, bottle, or whatever and start tossing in all your change. Throw in bills too if you like. Get your wife to do […]

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Who Does God Say You Are as a Couple?

September 18, 2016

I talk a great deal about growing up and becoming the man God intended you to be. Much of this is an individual thing, but some of it must involve your wife. Who does God say you and your wife are as a couple?  God says YOU+HER=1. How does He see that one? How would […]

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5 Ways Lube Makes Sex Better

September 17, 2016

On Thursday I posted the results of our survey on the use of lubricants. Half of those who answered use lube the majority of the time and only 11% never use it. Coconut oil is the lube of choice, used by more than a third of our respondents.  While the use of lube is widespread, there are still […]

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Friday Flashback: Can She Be Once, Twice Three Times a Lady?

September 16, 2016

In theory, all women can have multiple orgasms – but most don’t do so, or only do so infrequently. There are a number of reasons for women not having multiples, with choice being one that must be honoured. If she has indicated an interest, or if you’re sure she wouldn’t be upset if you tried […]

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Are Trivial Arguments Destroying Your Marriage?

September 15, 2016

Do you and your wife argue endlessly about silly little things? Or maybe it seems you argue about everything. Maybe the issue isn’t the things you’re arguing about. Perhaps the real issue is something one or both of you is unwilling to face/discuss/admit. There’s a problem, a very real, potentially marriage-ending problem, but talking about it’s […]

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