U Comment I Follow

April 22, 2010

By default all blog software adds “no follow” code to any link in a comment. The theory is that this stops spam. The reality is this does nothing to stop spam, while preventing Google from indexing links to legitimate pages and blogs.

So I’ve joined the U Comment I Follow “movement” – removing the code that keeps Google from indexing links on comments. If you have something worth hearing here, then I’m all for your web site or blog getting a boost on Google. And if what you have to say is spam, your comments aren’t going to make it here anyway.

If you want to join the U Comment I Follow movement, use the information below.

I encourage my fellow bloggers to kill nofollow on their blogs – we all benefit from more traffic!

6 comments
car2ner
car2ner

your post on the Proverbs wife sounds like a military wife.  It makes sense that when a man has to leave home to conduct business or defend the land, he has to trust his wife to take care of things at home.

tc777
tc777

My wife and I both subscribe to the daily e-mail tips. I do notice that the men's site has many more links than the women's site. The "Buy Stuff" links would be helpful to be on the The Generous Wife site, as my wife would prefer to be the one "browsing" through those types of sites. Also The Marriage Bed site. Just a thought....

Rich from VA
Rich from VA

I'm a really affectionate person. I love to hug, snuggle and hold hands with my wife, but she has a hard time doing those things. She doesn't know why and can't explain it to me. When we dated we did those things a lot and she didn't seem to have a problem with them, but now it's different. I know that both of us are different now too (8 years and three kids will do that) but I still don't understand it. She has shared with me that she feels as though I don't accept her because I ask for her to be physically affectionate towards me and she feels like I'm pressuring her to do so. My question is this: how can I encourage her to be more affectionate with me and still show her that I accept her and love her?

Jonas Jordan
Jonas Jordan

i dont know if you already have this in place but it would be awesome for those who do not have time to be on the computer throughout the week. to get the tips via text message. just a thought maybe the tip would be to large to send by text i dont know. i am a pipe fitter not a cumputer guy. love what is going on here thanks

Anna
Anna

You might check out the book "The Five Love Languages" by Gary Chapman. He talks a lot about what you described and has some really helpful and accurate (in my experience) suggestions.