Great sex – what you do and don’t need
I had an e-mail from a young man who was concerned his small penis meant he would be unable to satisfy his future wife. After giving him the biology as to why it’s not really an issue, I went on to tell him that what makes sex good for a woman has very little to do with a man’s body or what he does with it.
I am not saying “technique” is irrelevant, but for women what happens between their ears is far more critical than what happens between their legs. The woman who feels loved and respected is halfway to climax before she hits the bed, while the woman who does not is more than halfway to not wanting sex.
Women want to be wanted for more than their bodies. Your bride may get a thrill out of the way her breasts grab your attention, but only if she feels similarly desired and appropriated for who she is. Say more about her mind than her butt, and comment more often about her grace or sense humour than how she sounds when you have sex. The way to make her feel like a wild woman is to show her he is loved and appreciated beyond sex.