See her with your fingers
Close your eyes and study your bride’s body with your fingers. Feel the various textures and varying firmness of body parts. Feel her curves, and the creases where parts come together.
Start with her face, then move down her neck, and down one arm to the tips of her fingers. How much you explore the “fun bits” will depend on her general comfort level and how sexual she may or may not be feeling.
If she wants to return the favour, close your eyes, and really feel her fingers and hands on your body. Experience every touch, and try to imagine how it feels to her.