How important is your walk with the Lord to your bride? If she is at all serious about her walk, yours is probably more important to her than you know. We often hear Christian women who say they can not respect their husband because of his lack of pursuing God. This lack of respect deeply harms how a woman sees her husband, and it harms her desire to spend time with him in all ways (including sexual). For some women, feeling their husband is not serious about the Lord is the primary hurdle in their marriage.
What following God looks like to your bride will depend to some degree on her doctrine. I can say that any lack in things like integrity or kindness will certainly reflect poorly on you. On the other hand, desires and priorities that mirror those of the Lord will reflect well. Speaking blessings and letting her hear you pray will also tell her you are seriously pursing the Lord.