But it works for you
The other day my bride was talking about how different she and I are, and how I was doing something that she would never do. As she finished her comments, she said something wonderful – she said “But it works for you.“
I was greatly blessed by those words because it told me she was not trying to change me, or trying to convince me I was wrong. She was noting a real difference in how we approach life, but she also validated my way of doing it.