Post Sexual Touch
Do you touch your wife after sex? Both how you touch her and how much you touch her after sex communicates your feelings for her. The worst-case scenario is the guy who is all touchy when he wants sex but doesn’t touch at all after sex. It’s not difficult to figure out the message that sends to a woman.
Ideally, you want to touch her more after sex than at any other time. Aside from sending a very positive message (I love you even when I am not looking for sex), it’s a great time to touch her because she should be physically and emotionally open to being touched. Because of this, she will benefit from the touch a great deal.
What kind of touch? It shouldn’t be overly sexual (or completely non-sexual, depending on the woman), but it should be intimate. Rubbing and/or scratching her back, stroking her legs, massaging her butt, and touching her face are all good. You know her body and where she likes to be touched, so do what makes her feel good. And of course, do plenty of snuggling.
Finally, please don’t use the “Sex makes me sleepy” excuse to not give your wife post-sex touch. You can stay awake if you try, and frankly, she’s worth the effort.