Get so close she can’t demonize you
“The closer you get to someone, something, some brand, some organization…the harder it is to demonize it, objectify it or hate it. So, if you want to not be hated, open up. Let people in. Engage. Interact.” –Seth Godin
Let me reword that for marraige –
The closer you get to your bride, the harder it is for her to demonize, objectify or hate you. So, if you want to not be hated, open up. Let your bride in. Engage. Interact.
If you don’t engage and interact (which takes time and conversation) how can she know you? If she does not know you, how can she love you? On the other hand, a lack of time and connection makes it easy for her to think badly of you.