A suggestion should be just that – a suggestion.
Have you ever felt upset or insulted that your bride did not take a suggestion you made?
Why is that? Shouldn’t a suggestion be something that she can take or leave? If you are upset she does not take your suggestion, what does that say about you? Do you feel you are smarter than she is, and she should just do what you suggest? Or, do you feel she never listens to you?