Listen and learn
Seen on Twitter:
“People tend to criticize their spouse in the area they are most desiring love.” @DrGaryChapman:
This is one of those short comments that is both brilliant and deep. Listen to your bride; listen to what she criticizes or complains about, both about you and about others. In this, you will find the things she most cares about, and the areas where she most feels love, or where she is most needs to feel loved.