Self-Made Boxes

I’m all about not being put in boxes by others, and about checking the boxes others say are “of God”. Then the other day I realised I was living in some boxes of my own design. Because I built them in places where I was comfortable, they don’t seem like boxes to me, but they actually are. Like any box, they keep me from growing, and they keep me from questioning what I’m doing. If I were prefect that wouldn’t be a problem, but I’m far from perfect!

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What self-made boxes do you inhabit? What self-made boxes are affecting/limiting your marriage? Have you found some place you like and set up camp? It may have been a great place for a time, but maybe it’s not exactly where you should be today… or tomorrow.

Got a moment for a survey? As requested after my You Want to Put it Where? post, I am doing a survey on this issue: Anal Sex: Sin, okay, unhealthy, or what?

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2 Comments on “Self-Made Boxes

  1. Would have been nice if you gave examples of boxes you put yourself in. I am new to this blog and I really don’t have a clue what you’re talking about in this post.

  2. I agree we can put ourselves in boxes, things like, “I can’t do that, I am not good enough to do that.” I think we put others into boxes also.  I think spouse do that to each other unfairly all the time.
    However, I have to ask, are all boxes bad?  I think not.

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