As I write this, my son and his fiancée (for 12 more days!) are sitting at our kitchen table playing Scrabble – and holding hands. He’s left-handed, so they can both function well when her left hand is in his right. They eat meals this way too – holding hands almost the entire time.
Yes, it’s cute. It also says something about how much they want to be together. Do you remember when you and your wife felt that way about each other?
It’s normal for things to calm down a bit over time, but it’s also easy to get complacent. Think about how it was when you were engaged; how easy it was to be together and do everything together. Maybe you can put a bit of that back into your marriage. At the very least, you can hold hands a bit more often.