Do you ever wish your wife would sometimes get as crazy horny as you get? Do you wish she could enter into the sex act with as much abandon as you do, or express her pleasure with great gusto? And who doesn’t wish walking out of the shower naked resulted in her ripping off her clothes and demanding sex RIGHT NOW?

Very few women are this way naturally, and a few more learn to be this way for their husband and/or themselves. But for whatever reason this is rare, and I wouldn’t hold your breath waiting for your wife to change. 

I know this makes you sad. What if I told you there’s something you’re doing, or not doing, that makes your wife just as sad?

As much as you want her to be all about the awesome physical aspects of sex, she wants you to be into the emotional and relational aspects of sex. She wants to hear how much you enjoy sex because you’re doing it with her, not with her body. She wants to know how close you feel to her after sex. And when you tell her how amazing it was, she really wants it to be about more than your orgasm. 

I’m not telling you to enjoy the physical any less, and I’m not suggesting you lie about what you think and feel. What I am encouraging is focusing a bit more on the other aspects of sex. Talk about her beauty and her generosity as a lover. Tell her how glad you are she’s your wife and how you want to grow old with her.

Making sex more about what she desires is good for her, and it’s also good for your sex life and your marriage.

For a female take on this, check out What Makes Sex Intimate? Try Affection. | Hot, Holy & Humorous by J of Hot, Holy & Humorous

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