Friday Flashback: Two Fingers of Pleasure
Programming note: I am continuing my “week plus of sex posts” from June of 2010.
This is good for foreplay, or to bring her to climax before, after, or instead of intercourse. She needs to be fairly aroused before you start this, so make with the kissing and hugging, the breast play, and some genital play before you move to this.
You want her on her back, with you sitting to one side of her. Your legs should be in front of you and her body should be on the side of your dominant hand. Your hips will be about the level of her genitals along the length of her body. Part her legs moderately, and roll them out a bit. You’re going to insert your pointer finger while using your thumb on her clitoris. Bring your pointer up, as if you were trying to pinch her gently between your thumb and forefinger – this will simulate the area of her G-spot.
Try a variety of strokes.
Your thumb can move in circles, back and forth, up and down, or press in and release. Try variations in speed and the firmness of your touch. Initially, you will need to use a light touch and/or avoid direct contact with her clitoris. Placing your thumb to one side of her clitoris may work well.
Your finger inside can press or rub. Do circles, or back and forth. Vary pressure. Don’t worry if you can’t feel her G-spot, you’re in the right place. If she feels uncomfortable or feels she needs to urinate, back off. The urination urge should pass with time, especially if you give her good clitoral stimulation, and especially as she approaches orgasm. (Do this often enough and she won’t feel that urge even when you start.)
Find a coordination of internal and external stimulation that works well for her. Does she want the strongest internal stimulation (pressing in) to match or counter the strongest clitoral stimulation? Does she want the two at the same tempo, or does she want one double the speed of the other?
If you take her to climax this way, don’t be shy. Women can be overstimulated, but it’s not as significant a problem for them as it usually is for men. Her climax can be made longer by keeping the stimulation up through her orgasm. (Ask her to let you know if you should back off.)
If you do this with good lighting you will have a very nice view. Watch how her vulva changes as her arousal level increases, and enjoy the feeling of her vagina clenching your finger as she climaxes.
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